Wednesday, November 25, 2015

Last Social Circles

Join us Tuesday December 15th

6 to & 7:30 pm @ The Southampton Free Library                                       
947 Street Rd, Southampton PA18966                                                  

FREE Event. All Ages Welcome, not just an older crowd!   
Lots of Fun. Have a good time mingling with other singles! Learn something new!

Topic: Single during the Holidays? What to do,
Snacks/Beverages Provided. 

RSVP Today! 
Call Martha # 215-584-0188

  FREE Event 

Tuesday, November 10, 2015

Social Circles

Join us Tuesday November 17th


@ The Southampton Free Library                                       
947 Street Rd, Southampton PA18966                                                  

FREE Event. All Ages Welcome, not just an older crowd!   
Lots of Fun. Have a good time mingling with other singles! Learn something new!

Topic: I say I want to meet that special someone. So, what's standing in my way?
Snacks/Beverages Provided. 

RSVP Today! 
Call Martha # 215-584-0188

Always a FREE Event held on the 3rd Tuesday night of every month through Dec. 2015.

Wednesday, October 14, 2015

"Social Circles"
Tuesday October 20th 6 to 7:30 pm

 

The Southampton Free Library
947 Street Rd, Southampton PA 18966

 

Free Event. Singles, Join us for Friendships, Fun and possibly a Love Connection! Have a great time mingling with other singles. 
Learn something new!
 

30s and 40s Welcome! Not just an older crowd. 
                                                 
Snacks/Beverages Provided. Topic: Think flirting doesn't matter? Think again.

RSVP Today! Call Martha # 215-584-0188
**This is the first of the last 3 Social Circles. It is a Free Event happening the third Tuesday of every month through Dec. 2015.**

Saturday, September 5, 2015

Are you staying in a nowhere relationship? 

If you’re single and don’t want to be, you’re probably tired of trying to figure out why. I've spoken with women and men who stayed in long term relationships far longer than they should. Whether its 12 months 5 or 10 years, they stayed in dead-end relationships month after month even though it became clear their relationship wasn't going anywhere. You know when the relationship is not progressing.

Martha's Singles's photo.
If you're looking for marriage and possibly children and he or she isn't, the earlier you end it and move on the better. You should free yourself so you can find a more compatible partner. You can tell, even in the first few months if you're falling in love and are open-mind toward a future together.

Is he looking to keep things somewhat casual? Then he’s not in a position or doesn't want to offer you a serious committed relationship. Some women, when faced with this situation think that if they give it more time and are patient enough, the man will eventually come around. But it really doesn’t work that way. Don’t Settle. Settling is one of the most destructive diseases present in relationships as we know them.

Talk to him calmly and find out whether or not the two of you are on the same page. Be clear. Let him know that, you’re looking for someone to share your life with, and if he’s not looking for the same thing then you’re not a match. He's either marriage material or, he’s not.
Men can also have this problem, with a woman dating him for the wrong reasons. You have to be prepared to walk away when you find out he or she doesn’t want what you want. This is a good thing. Now, you can stop wasting your time in this going nowhere relationship and put your energies toward finding Mr. or Mrs. Right!

As a Dating/Relationship Coach, I help single men and women with Divorce Transition and Advice, Flirting and Attraction, Conversational Skills, Image Redo's and Behavior and Expectations.
With Personal Introductions, I draw upon my experience, networking abilities, and my intuition to find my clients suitable partners. I personally select, screen, and assess compatibility.

Call Martha Today to schedule a Free Session. Office #267-756-7062 Cell # 215-584-0188 For more information www.marthassingles.com/

Saturday, August 1, 2015

Time is running out! 
Wine & Dine in the Brandywine Valley 

RESERVATIONS with PAYMENT REQUIRED the first week of AUGUST. 

Book with Carol @ Boscov's Travel.# 215-355-3737
or Martha # 215-584-0188 for Day Trip Sat. Sept. 26th.


Your                              
Martha's Singles's photo. 

Trail Tour Includes:

Round trip transportation via private motorcoach equipped with reclining seats and restroom.
Visit to the Artisan Exchange, West Chester, PA – Shop the region’s first indoor market featuring a wide array of organically produced foods made right on the premises. Homemade breads, artisan cheeses and other prepared foods make the perfect accompaniment to your Wine Trail tour.
Tastings at the following wineries:
Kreutz Creek Vineyard – built on dreams and determination, what began as a hobby has grown to become a signature stop on the Brandywine Valley Wine Trail.  



Borderland Vineyard – captures the natural beauty of the area in small batches of wine crafted from grapes grown on the family farm and nearby.
Black Walnut Winery – located in a 200+ year old bank barn, the Black Walnut Winery has kept that old world feel to reflect the historic craft of winemaking.
Your tour includes all necessary taxes and gratuities for the included features, including the gratuity for your motorcoach driver.


$89 PER PERSON
Plan to arrive at the mall by 8:45am –
the bus will depart promptly at 9:00am sharp!
Approximate return to the Neshaminy Mall by 5:00 pm


We'll have a Great Time Wining and Dining while mingling and getting to know each other! There will be lots of laughs and fun on the bus and you're welcome to bring along snacks or lunch.

Monday, June 1, 2015

Mondays with Martha


Do you want to improve your love life?  

Here are some dating tips to help you make some positive changes to do just that.

TIP #1 Ladies, Be Confident! Men are attracted to women that are confident with themselves. They find them sexy. Not I'm too good for you confidence but the confidence of being comfortable with who you are as a person. Men love women who know what they want!


TIP #2 Work out! Physical activity will help you feel good about yourself on the inside and out, it will create a beautiful glow on your skin and it will stimulate a sexual awakening. Exercise will increase endorphins which will increase your heart rate and help rid you of stress.

TIP #3 Smile, A lot and be friendly! A smile will open the doors for conversation and love. A friendly person is approachable and conversational. Don't walk around with your head down or with a frown. A smile says, I'm friendly, I'm approachable, I want to talk to you. Be present in the world. You never know when you may meet your mate or someone who will lead you to that special person.

TIP #4 Negativity attracts negativity. It keeps you in a depressed mindset and steals your joy. It takes away your drive and ambition. Send out positive energy and it will come back to you. What are you thinking and doing? If you don't like your situation, do something about it! Make a change NOW not tomorrow. Do something great for you today! Even if it's as simple as looking in the mirror and saying positive affirmations. Gals find a hot dress and heels and hit the town! And guys, paying attention to your style and grooming, always gets you noticed.

As a Dating/Relationship Coach, Martha helps single men and women get the results they're not achieving on their own. If you are tired of not meeting anyone or choosing the wrong partners, I can help you achieve your goals.

To learn more about my services, please schedule a complimentary consultation today!
Call Martha @ office 267-756-7062 or cell 215-584-0188 
https://www.marthassingles.com/

Monday, April 27, 2015

Mondays with Martha

Bitch Face Passing  (aka Resting Bitch Face) 

This is how men reference women they come across in everyday life whose  facial expressions appear angry, annoyed, irritated, pissed or semi-murderous. This is real and it’s ruining some women's lives! Bitch Face Passing prevents people from coming near you. You're scaring people off before you even open your mouth.

This happens at the workplace passing someone in the hallway, at the supermarket, or anywhere out in public. Some women may be perfectly happy but their angry face says otherwise. It says “Get the hell away” and eventually they’re going to stop trying to talk to you and do just that. Out at a bar when you’re trying to meet guys, Resting Bitch Face will kill your chances. He wants to buy you a drink and come over to talk to you but he’s terrified that you’ll open your mouth and tell him where to go. Resting Bitch Face is a real killer when it comes to meeting people in the singles scene.

Some women are becoming angry with men. Even though they are lonely and want a man to love them. Many view men as competition at work. Others are angry believing that men get paid more than women for the same job. 

Men are not the enemy and they're not all the same. Regardless of your career choice, you can be in competition with male or female coworkers. 

Regarding pay disparities, there are variables. A couple of examples are that women's resumes may show gaps of not working due to having/raising children and generally women accept less pay when they are originally hired. Many don't stand up for themselves in an assertive way. Or they don't have the confidence to present their case as to why they deserve that raise or promotion.

If you already have a boyfriend, he will probably not buy that you aren’t angry with him when you constantly look angry or bored. He won’t believe you when you say that nothing is wrong. An argument can develop hurting the relationship.

Become aware of how you are perceived in the world. Be friendly and change that go away look to a smile! 

For Dating/Relationship Coaching e-mail martha @marthassingles.com or call me
@ 215-584-0188.

Monday, April 13, 2015

Mondays with Martha

Are you finding the love of your life? Here are some questions with my comments from the Soulmate Secret by Arielle Ford.
  • Do you believe your soulmate is out there? You need to really accept and believe that he or she is out there and also looking for you.
  • Are you ready to meet him or her right now? Readiness is very important otherwise you may miss your opportunities.
  • Are you psychologically and physically in your best condition to meet your soulmate? Are you mentally ready to love another person and have them love you? Can you handle the ups and downs that come with any relationship? Your health and physical well being are important. Take care of and love yourself.
  • Is your home ready to receive your soulmate? Take a look at your home. Is it ready for romantic company? If not, take some time to spruce it up.
  • Do you regularly exhibit the qualities you believe your soulmate would find attractive? You want a certain type of person. But are you being the kind of person that man or woman would be attracted to? You need to show those qualities as you live your life every day in this world.
Good and bad things happen in this life. Follow your heart and conscience. Remember, positive energy attracts positive energy.

For Dating/Relationship Coaching e-mail martha @marthassingles.com or call me
@ 215-584-0188.

Monday, April 6, 2015

Mondays with Martha

For a long time now, several of you have requested Singles Day Trips. Well I'm happy to say your voices were heard! My first Singles Day Trip will be to the Brandywine Valley on Saturday Sept 26th, Reserve by August 7th.

We will visit the Artisans Exchange. This is the region's first indoor market. It makes the perfect accompaniment to your Wine Trail tour.
Tastings will be at Kreutz Creek Vineyard, Borderland Vineyard, and Black Walnut Winery

Tickets $89 (includes taxes & gratuities) Call Martha for details 215-584-0188. www.marthassingles.com

Monday, March 9, 2015

Mondays with Martha

Soulmate What is it and Do you want one? 

In the movie "Shall we dance?" starring Richard Gere and Susan Sarandon there is a terrific scene where Susan's character is describing why she loves being married to her Soulmate.

She says " We need a witness to our lives. There are a billion people on the planet.....I mean, what does any one life really mean? But in a marriage, you're promising to care about everything--the good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things--all of it, all the time, every day. You're saying "Your life will not go by unnoticed because I will notice it. Your life will not go unwitnessed because I will be your witness." 

Maybe the word soulmate doesn't resonate with you. Not everyone identifies with that term. But a rose by any other name smells as sweet. Maybe its a best friend who's also your lover. Maybe you call it Big Love. Learn more about The Law of Attraction to help you find that special person. E-mail martha@marthassingles.com for a free consultation.

Monday, March 2, 2015

Mondays with Martha

Dating/Relationship Advice "Five Tips to keep the Romance"

1. Talk to each other. Best friends talk!!! Once the initial passion dies down, you are left with conversation. If there is no conversation then the relationship may only be built on the physical, and thus, not likely to last in the long-term. Find new things to talk about every day, even if it is just reporting your day to your loved-one. Talk about current events in the news, the plot of your favorite movie or just discuss plans for the next time you go out. Talking is the key to longevity…don't forget it!

2. Give gifts. Sure, you can survive on love alone - but why? Don't ever forget the importance of gifts! Don't feel like you must spend a fortune on gift-giving - after all, it's the little things that count anyway. A single flower, a picture frame, a magazine….any little thing that reminds you of your lover….will make your sweetheart's love grow.

3. Make Love Well, this is self-explanatory. Believe it or not, sometimes in a long-term relationship, sex gets put on a back burner. Try not to let this happen. Talking openly about the subject and being genuinely affectionate will help keep the fire lit.

 4. Flirt. No, not with other people! With each other! Once people settle into a relationship, it gets easier and easier to forget to continuously woo the object of your affection. Don't forget the hair flips, the coy smiles and the light touches on the arm - they can be integral in keeping the excitement going, especially after many years and a few kids.

 5. Date. Grab your calendars and set a time each week or each month for an official "date." Plan ahead and alternate who is responsible for making the plans. If you have a date night, you have something special to look forward to - and for parents it could be a much-needed adult night out.

Monday, February 16, 2015

Mondays with Martha

Tips on How to connect with anyone.

Take a genuine interest. Find out what makes people who they are. Hear their story. Ask questions. Dig deep and connect.
 
Build on common ground. At its most basic level, any relationship is built on some kind of common ground. When you meet someone, try to find something that connects you to similar backgrounds, values experiences. When you detect a pattern, a "Yeah, me too!" moment, connection is instantaneous.  

Smile. "Smile and the whole world smiles with you." Sure, it's a cliche, but for good reason. A smile generates enthusiasm and interest; it communicates friendliness and goodwill; it shows you to be accessible and approachable. Smile when you speak to someone, as you walk into a room, and when you pick up the phone.
 
Remember names. Remembering a person's name is important, and using it occasionally in conversation creates connection and helps you remember.
 
Encourage people to talk. The key to locking into any relationship is to invite someone to talk, and then listen. Most people are just waiting for the other person to finish so they can say their part. Listen and show interest, even if it means stretching your attention span.
 
Learn from everyone you meet. Keep the focus on the other person. As a bonus, this prevents your being dragged into gossip. Stay focused on his or her interests; find something this person can teach you that will be useful or interesting to know.
 
Show up with enthusiasm. People who live with passion find it easier to connect with others. Knowing what you really care about and why lets you tap into your own enthusiasm. Upbeat people are inherently likable, and those who radiate enthusiasm tend to click with others.
 
Make others feel important. Use your words and attitude to create a spotlight. Let the person you're speaking with know he or she is important, and important to you, by the way you talk. Let the sound of your voice be energized. Ask for input. Ask for advice. Ask for help. Ask for insight. Ask for experience. All of these invitations tell the person, "I find you important."
 
Look for the good. Be generous with others; look for points of agreement and places where you can affirm or reinforce what they're saying. Speak patiently and with care, and those around you will feel heard and appreciated.
 
Treat others as you want to be treated. Connecting with others does not take much. It is truly simple. Just be mindful, thoughtful, and genuinely interested. Offer an honest compliment or your authentic appreciation. There's always something to appreciate about almost anyone.

Monday, February 2, 2015

Mondays with Martha

Are you staying in a nowhere relationship?

If you’re single and don’t want to be, you’re probably tired of trying to figure out why. I've spoken with women and men who stayed in long term relationships far longer than they should. Whether it's 18 months, 5 or 10 years, they stayed in dead-end relationships month after month even though it became clear their relationship wasn't going anywhere. You know when the relationship is not progressing.
If you're looking for marriage and possibly children and he or she isn't, the earlier you end it and move on the better. You should free yourself so you can find a more compatible partner. You can tell, even in the first few months if you're falling in love and and are open-mind toward a future together.
Is he looking to keep things somewhat casual? Then he’s not in a position or doesn't want to offer you a serious committed relationship. Some women, when faced with this situation think that if they give it more time and are patient enough, the man will eventually come around. But it really doesn’t work that way. Don’t Settle. Settling is one of the most destructive diseases present in relationships as we know them.

Talk to him calmly and find out whether or not the two of you are on the same page. Be clear. Let him know that, you’re looking for someone to share your life with, and if he’s not looking for the same thing then you’re not a match. He'll either step up to the plate and be marriage material or, he won’t. 

Men can also have this problem, with a woman dating him for the wrong reasons. You have to be prepared to walk away when you find out he or she doesn’t want what you want. This is a good thing. Now, you can stop wasting your time in this going nowhere relationship and put your energies toward finding Mr or Mrs Right!
If you'd like more information on my dating/relationship services e-mail martha@marthassingles.com/

Monday, January 26, 2015

Mondays with Martha

Do you want to improve your love life? Here are some dating tips to help you make some positive changes to do just that.

TIP #1 Ladies, Be Confident! Men are attracted to women that are confident with themselves. They find them sexy. Not the I'm too good for you confidence but the confidence of being comfortable with who you are as a person. Men love women who know what they want!

Tip #2 Work out! Physical activity will help you feel good about yourself on the inside and out, it will create a beautiful glow on your skin and it will stimulate a sexual awakening. Exercise will increase endorphins which will increase your heart rate and help rid you of stress.

 TIP #3 Smile, A lot and be friendly! A smile will open the doors for conversation and love. A friendly person is approachable and conversational. Don't walk around with your head down or with a frown. A smile says, I'm friendly, I'm approachable, I want to talk to you. Be present in the world. You never know when you may meet your mate or someone who will lead you to that special person.

TIP #4 Negativity attracts negativity. It keeps you in a depressed mindset and steals your joy. It takes away your drive and ambition. Send out positive energy and it will come back to you. What are you thinking and doing? If you don't like your situation, do something about it! Make a change NOW not tomorrow. Do something great for you today! Even if it's as simple as looking in the mirror and saying positive affirmations. Gals find a hot dress and heels and hit the town! And guys, paying attention to your style and grooming, always gets you noticed.

Monday, January 5, 2015

Mondays with Martha

Want to feel upbeat for the New Year. Start the New Year Right “Shake It Off” with Taylor Swift! If you had a bad day, shake it off. If there is something wrong, shake it off. If you just want to have a good time, shake it off. This song will definitely help you get in the right state of mind when things don't go a certain way. Have a Great 2015!