Monday, October 27, 2014

Mondays with Martha

Online Dating? Whether you're on Match or Timber, here are some helpful Tips. 
1. Have a great Headline: Let the reader know who you are while being memorable enough to keep them reading. Humor works!
2. Include multiple pictures of yourself: Make sure they're recent. Look at them as if you were the reader. Be appealing. Show your personality.
3. Include your interests: If you like movies say what movies are your favorites. If you like to cook, talk about your popular dishes. If politics or religion are important to you, say that.
4. Have fun with it: Use humor and share a vacation story or a memorable experience. Be interesting and creative.

Monday, October 20, 2014

Mondays with Martha

Flirting ! Whether you're single and dating or a couple that wants to keep their relationship fun and romantic, never stop flirting. Tease each other. Leave each other random love notes. Send each other suggestive texts. Play footsie under the table. Compliment your partner. If he or she is looking good, tell them! Flirting is playful and you'll let your love interest know that you don’t take them for granted.

When you go on dates take some time getting ready. Show your date (even your husband or wife) that you want to look your best for them. Spend some quality time together. If you're on a budget, you can totally do a date night at home: light some candles, cook dinner together, make a romantic playlist;whatever it takes to make sure it feels like a special night.

Monday, October 13, 2014

Mondays with Martha

Do you really want to meet someone? I'm sure you've heard that he or she is not showing up at your door. Unless it's the mailman or the like, you'll be waiting a long time. We put effort into our friendships, careers and other interests. But when it comes to love we just expect it to happen.

Stop asking where and ask how. You can meet anywhere, Coffee Shops, Bookstores, Happy Hours, Singles Events, On-line Dating, Facebook and of course the Supermarket. The question is How will you meet. Will you smile, be friendly and actually talk to the other person? Brush up on your social skills. Romance happens in person. If what you're doing isn't working, there's no shame in hiring a dating coach. What's more important than having love in your life as you balance work and responsibilities? Enjoy the journey.