Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Information on the Next 2 Events 1/31 & 2/7

Don’t Forget! Next Event This Thursday Jan. 31st



6 to 9pm


@ Los Sarapes Horsham

  Mexican Cuisine ~ Margarita & Tequila Bar
         1116 Horsham Rd (Rte. 463) Horsham Twp.


Join us for a night of Food, Flirting and Fun!

This truly authentic Mexican Restaurant/Bar
has a colorful and cozy setting.
Perfect Venue for a Singles Mixer!
Flavorful and Delicious Appetizers Included.
Drink Specials from a Fully stocked Cash Bar with
an extensive variety of Tequilas.

Cost $20.00
Dress: Sharp Casual  Age Range: 30’s to 50’s
RSVP Call Martha # 215-584-0188

Then Thursday Feb. 7th

“Valentine's Singles Mixer” 6pm to 9pm

@ Earl's Bucks County
  Rte 202 & Street Rd "Peddlers Village"   
                              

Romance is in the air! 

Come join the party in the

EBC Lounge Reserved for Martha’s Singles.

This will be a Fun Night with Free raffle tickets for Gift Baskets By Marlene, Prizes and More!

Make friends and possibly a Valentine!
 
  Great Tasting Appetizers Included.

Also, your choice of additional appetizers
can be ordered at Half Price.


Fully stocked Cash Bar with Half price off
all draft & bottled beers, wine by the glass,
cocktails and martinis.
Cost $20.00
Dress: Sharp  Age Range: 30’s to 50’s
         2 Great Venues!
                          “All you have to do is show up!


 

Monday, January 28, 2013

Don't Stay Home !

Calling All Singles! Don't Miss It!  This Thursday 6 to 9pm.

 "Mexican Fiesta Singles Mixer" @ Los Sarapes Horsham

Photo: Calling All Singles!. Don't Miss It! This Thursday 6 to 9pm.
"Mexican Fiesta Singles Mixer" @ Los Sarapes Horsham   
A night of Food, Flirting and Fun! Join us in this colorful and cozy,  truly authentic Mexican Restaurant/Bar.
Flavorful Appetizers Included. Cash Bar with Drink Specials!
Cost $20.00 Dress: Sharp Casual Age Range: app. 30's +
RSVP Call Martha 215-584-0188
Visit www.marthas-singles.comA night of Food, Flirting and Fun!
Join us in this colorful and cozy, truly authentic Mexican Restaurant/Bar.
Flavorful Appetizers Included. Cash Bar with Drink Specials!

Cost $20.00 Dress: Sharp Casual Age Range: app. 30's +
RSVP Call Martha 215-584-0188


Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Mexican Fiesta

Calling All Singles! 
Come on out for a night of food, flirting and fun! 
Thursday January 31st 6 to 9 pm
Happening @ Los Sarapes Horsham
1116 Horsham Rd (Rte. 463) Horsham Twp.
Join us in the colorful, warm and cozy setting of a truly authentic
Mexican Restaurant/Bar. Make friends and possibly a love connection!
Flavorful Tasty Appetizers Included. 
Fully stocked cash bar with an extensive variety of Tequilas.
Drink specials: Specialty drinks such as Mojitos, Faloma,
Michelada & Mexican Midnight $5.00 to $7.00
House Margaritas $5.00, House wines $6.00,
Bottled beers $5.00 except Miller Lite $4.00
Cost $20.00
Dress: Sharp Casual Age Range: app. 30's +

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Don't Miss It! This Thursday!

January 24th 6 to 9 pm  “New Year Singles Mixer”  

Happening @ The Brick Hotel   

1 East Washington Ave in Newtown PA 
Tired of the Internet or just staying home?

Come on out!  We get together in the Tavern reserved for Martha's Singles.
Mingle, have a great time, make friends and possibly a love connection!
Perfect venue for a singles mixer!
Enjoy Delicious Appetizers Included. 
Fully Stocked Cash bar with House wines @ $6.00 each, 
All Draft beers @ $4.00 each.
Also, you may order certain additional  appetizers at Half Price
Cost $20.00
Dress : Sharp City Casual   Age Range: app. 30's to 50's
RSVP Appreciated  Call Martha # 215-584-0188.


Monday, January 21, 2013

Mondays with Martha

Lately, I've heard stories from several women about men (they've met on certain dating sites) that are rushing them. On the first or maybe second date they're asking inappropriate questions seemingly to find out if you're worth their time. But...  
Will You Still Love Me On Sunday  By Chelsea Fagan info Jan. 20, 2013
It’s so easy to be head-over-heels under the loud music and the overfull glasses of Saturday night. Everyone loves each other, everyone wants to be best friends. Everyone sees only the best in everyone else. And there is a certain magic in Saturday night, as though you’re so far inside the weekend — so buffered on each side from the unforgiving reality of the weekdays — that everything is possible and real if you want it to be. You say things you might not mean on Monday morning, because for the moment in between the sixth and seventh drink on Saturday, it’s all you can think about. Going home and going to sleep in someone’s arms when you have every inhibition stripped away is easy. It’s fun, of course, but you saw it coming.

But when you wake up on Sunday morning, when your head hurts so badly you feel as though it will never return to normal, when everything that was beautiful and mysterious the night before has been rendered harsh and unflattering in the relentless daylight — will you still want to turn over to me? Will you still be interested in all of the things I have to say, all of the coincidences we took as divine intervention last night when we were only so happy to tell each other how we feel? If the facilitators of alcohol and dim lights and a group of laughing around us are no longer part of the equation, do you still want to hold my hand?
And if I’m sick on Sunday, come down with the flu after not having taken proper care of myself this week, will you bring me soup? Are you willing to accept that the quietness and vague sadness of Sundays are simply part of life, and that every moment between two people cannot be the kaleidoscopic blur of honesty and fulfillment that Saturday is? Because I have been told so many things on a Saturday night which failed to be true in the morning, which were as much inspired by having the night end on some kind of temporary high note as they were by genuine feelings. I understand that sometimes we get caught up in a moment, but I don’t want my life to be a series of moments that cannot be sustained once the party is over.

We all know that pit-in-the-stomach feeling of Sunday, the throbbing knowledge that one has to go to work in the morning, that whatever was able to manifest itself in the throes of the weekend will have to be met with the limitations of daily life. I am not so naive as to believe that everything that can happen when we have no responsibilities is capable of being sustained during the times when we are surrounded by logistical constraints, but I believe we can adjust. I believe that if we mean what we say when we are drunk and we are honest and we are able to listen to our bodies without our pesky heads getting in the way, we can make things work in the times when everything is too real and too well-lit for us to cope with.

I will love you on Sunday. If I told you all of these beautiful things when we were standing under the red light of the bar, peeling the label off a beer bottle, it’s because I want you to remember them the next day. I want to pounce on my momentary lack of inhibitions to say all of the things I’ll later want to sweep under the rug, but which I truly mean. I am telling you these things on Saturday because I won’t be able to on Sunday, but I’ll want you to know that I mean them. And I hope you know me well enough to know that I never say anything I don’t mean — even if they’re a bit embarrassing to remember in the morning.

Friday, January 18, 2013

Upcoming Events


Lots of fun and good times to be had this year.
Here's  the next three Events!

                                      “New Year Singles Mixer” 
                                   Thursday January 24th 6 to 9 pm 

1 East Washington Ave Newtown PA  
(corner of S. State St.) Bucks County



The Tavern is reserved for Martha's Singles. Perfect ambiance where 
Singles can mingle, have a great time, make friends and possibly a love
connection! Elegant relaxed  perfect venue for a singles mixer.
Enjoy Delicious Appetizers Included. New Tapas Menu offered. 
Full stocked Cash bar with Drink Specials. Cost $20.00
Dress : Sharp City Casual   Age Range: app. 30's to 50's
RSVP Appreciated Please call Martha # 215-584-0188. 


Thursday January 31st 6 to 9 pm 


                 


Los Sarapes Horsham Mexican Cuisine ~ 
                                   Margarita & Tequila Bar

1116 Horsham Rd (Rte. 463) Horsham Twp.


Come on out for a fun time in the colorful, warm and cozy setting of a 
truly authentic Mexican Restaurant/Bar. Make friends and possibly 
a love connection!

Flavorful Tasty Appetizers Included.

Fully stocked cash bar with an extensive variety of Tequilas.

Drink specials: Specialty drinks $5.00 to $7.00

House Margaritas $5.00, House wines $6.00,

Bottled beers $5.00 except Miller Lite $4.00
Cost $20.00
Dress : Sharp Casual   Age Range app. 30's +

                                       " Valentine's Singles Mixer"

                                Thursday February 7th 6pm to 9pm

                                            Earl's Bucks County

Route 202 & Street Rd in "Peddlers Village" Lahaska, PA

Romance is in the air!

Come join us in the Elegant EBC Lounge, Reserved for good times,

friendships and possibly a love connection! 

Flavorful Appetizers Included.  Also, your choice of additional 
appetizers can be ordered at Half Price.

Fully stocked Cash bar- Half price off All draft & bottled beers, wine by the glass, cocktails and martinis.
Free Raffles, Prizes and more!
Cost $20.00 
Dress: Sharp City Casual Age Range 30's +

For all Events:
Reservations Appreciated (Helps with planning)
Call Martha # 215-584-0188
Pay cash at the door
For credit card payment must pay ahead and use PayPal on my website
E-mail marthas.singles@comcast.net

                        3 Great Venues!

                                     “All you have to do is show up!”

Monday, January 14, 2013

Mondays with Martha

This advice works for both men and women:  

DATING (GROWNUP STYLE): The Art Of The First Date  

Here’s some advice on what you can do to have a successful first date.

1. The Smaller The Better
Small talk is the best way to start a date. Many people on a first date are nervous, self-conscious, and even insecure. Idle chatter lets you settle in, get comfortable, and get a sense of each other. Digging right in to personal things almost always leads to the beginning of the end.
Don't think this is wasted time. Talking about non-consequential (i.e., nonthreatening) topics will bring out your date's fundamental personality. You’ll see clues to their intelligence, well-roundedness, sense of humor, lifestyle and general interests. This is the stuff you’re going to live with every day, and it’s important.
2. Watch Your Moves
Your body language and communication skills speak volumes. Do you show confidence and interest by keeping eye contact? Do you smile and laugh, lean in to listen when they talk and show respect by using good manners (to him and to servers)? Again, this tells you tons about a person.                                                            
3. Nix The TMI (Too Much Information)
Context is huge. Sharing your illnesses or the details of a bankruptcy or divorce on the first date will most likely send them fleeing. Let them find out how kind, confident, brilliant and fun you are before laying out all the less than desirable facts about your life. When you share it on the second or third date, they can judge it in its proper context.
4. It's A 50/50 Proposition
The number one complaint from the women I coach is that men talk incessantly and don't ask enough questions about their date. Of course some women are guilty of this too.
I know you may be nervous and want to impress. Also, it's flattering to be asked about yourself and be in the company of an active listener. But please, don't over share. Make sure you give your date equal time to talk and ask questions about their life.
If you don't, you'll go home with memories of you talking about yourself. You'll probably feel foolish, and know nothing about your date. Hence, neither of you will want a second date.
5. Become A Master Of The Segue
Ladies, this is for you: Contrary to most women’s opinion, asking him about himself and letting him talk endlessly is not a way to attract him. While grownup men certainly look for deep connection in a partner, “someone who will hear my deepest thoughts” is far from first on their list.
How will he get to know you if you just listen to him all night? Leaving a man feeling like he revealed too much is a recipe for disaster. If he gets home feeling like he told you more than he would tell his best friend (which usually isn't much), you’re not getting a call for that next date.
If he is going on and on, gently transition the conversation back to you. Aim for a good balance by helping him pass the conversation ball. (This, of course, is a great skill for guys to learn too.)
6. Some Talking Points
When first getting to know each other, talk about what you like to do, where you like to vacation, where you’ve lived, what you love about your job/life/friends/community. This is where you should start as you date like a grownup.
Get a sense of your date's personality, intellect, and manner…and let them see yours. Then go home. I’ll bet you'll have more second dates!
 By Bobbi Palmer, Gazette Relationship Columnist 

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

New Year Singles Mixer

It's a New Year 2013!
We're having a great time starting with 
Thursday January 24th, 2013 6 to 9 pm
1 East Washington Ave Newtown  PA 18940(at the  corner of S. State St.)

Come on out Singles and get together in the Tavern. Classy and comfortable with a great bar and  tables. Wonderful atmosphere to make new friends and possibly a love connection!
Enjoy delicious appetizers Included.
Full service Cash bar with House wines ( choice of 2 whites and 2 reds) 
@ $6.00 each, All draft beers @ $4.00 each.
Also, you may order certain other appetizers at Half Price
Entry fee $20.00
Dress : Sharp City Casual
Age Range: app. 30's to 50's
RSVP Appreciated (Helps with planning)
Please call Martha # 215-584-0188