Happy St Patrick's Day Everyone! If you're out celebrating today or any other time, this applies.
I've been hearing it and observing it from both sides (men & women). I've written about and posted articles about this subject before and Here I go again! This may be a little tough love but it's important.
So, Guys and Gals, If you what you're doing isn't working. If you want to make friends, and as I always say, or possibly make a love connection, Keep Reading.
When out at a singles event or anywhere, really, Notice the opposite sex. Look up and at each other with a friendly expression.
(See Mon. Feb. 17, 2014. Mondays with Martha, "4 Steps to Flirting Success" )
Now, Especially for women .
Don't let the rain keep you home. Don't let "I look too fat" stop you. Don't let going out by yourself stop you. (When you come to my events, you're never alone) Also, Ladies, when you do show up at a singles venue, Don't flock together like a gaggle of geese so absorbed in conversation that you appear not to be interested in men. Look up and around the room. Make eye contact. FLIRT!
What the guys tell me is that women aren't looking at
them or showing any interest. It appears to them that you gals are having a grand old time without them. Show them interest. Smile at them and
Be Approachable. I understand that your smile or nod may not be returned but to the right one it will be.
Now for the men.
If you see a woman that you may be interested in, Approach! If you get up to bat and strike out, you try again. Women don't want to be rejected and neither do you. But you are the men. Women still want men to be men. So take the chance. You can miss an opportunity you'll never get again.
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I offer a FREE 30 minute dating coaching session. (in person or on the phone) Call me #215-584-0188 www.marthassingles.com