Mondays with Martha

Don’t stay home This Thursday! 
 Martha's Singles,
“The alternative to On-line dating” 

          invites you to “Elegant Mixer”

                        Sept. 27th 6 to 9 pm  

@ Earl's Bucks County in Peddler's Village 
Route 202 & Street Road, Lahaska PA 18931
                                                                           
Peddler’s Village is a wonderful place to visit!  Come see all the unique Scarecrows now being displayed plus the specialty shoppes etc.

Visit http://www.peddlersvillage.com/
 
Then hop on over to Earl’s @ 6pm

Single Guys and Gals are showing up for this event! 
Come join us in the comfortable and contemporary EBC Lounge for good times, friendships and possibly a love connection!
 
Delicious Hot and Cold Appetizers included.  Cash bar with Half price off all draft & bottled beers and wine by the glass, plus cocktail & martini specials. $20.00

Dress: Sharp City Casual    Age range: 30’s plus  
RSVP Appreciated (Helps with planning) 
Call Martha # 215-584-0188 

Elegant Mixer

Thursday Sept. 27th 6 to 9 pm

Earl's Bucks County in Peddler's Village
Route 202 & Street Road, Lahaska PA 

Single guys and gals, Join us in the comfortable, contemporary EBC Lounge in a Beautiful Restaurant/Bar.

                    Delicious Hot & Cold Appetizers included. 

 

Cash bar with Half price off all draft & bottled beers and wine by the glass, plus cocktail & martini specials.  $20.00

Dress: Sharp City Casual  Age Range: 30's to 50's
RSVP Appreciated Call Martha # 215-584-0188   

TONIGHT!

Don’t Miss It!       “Piano Bar Mixer”

             TONIGHT!  Sept. 14^th 6:30 to 10pm 

         @ Dolce Carini Restaurant/Bar

        Village at Newtown East Shopping Center 

    2823 South Eagle Rd, Newtown PA 18940

       

 Rita Schlom plays wonderful music on the piano in the Bar reserved for Martha’s Singles.

Elegant relaxed atmosphere, perfect venue to mix and mingle with great people, make friends and possibly a love connection!

Really Delicious Hot and Cold Appetizers Included.  Cash bar $20.00

Dress: Sharp City Casual Age range: 40+

RSVP Appreciated 

 Call Martha # 215-584-0188

Next Event

Friday night Sept. 14^th

         “Piano Bar Mixer” 6:30 to 10pm

       @ Dolce Carini Restaurant/Bar  

Village at Newtown East Shopping Center
2823 South Eagle Road, Newtown PA 18940

We get together at The Piano Bar reserved

for Martha’s Singles. Enjoy the music played by Rita Schlom.                

Come on out and have a great time! Elegant relaxed atmosphere, perfect venue to socialize,

make friends and possibly a love connection!

Delicious Hot and Cold Appetizers included. Cash bar $20.00

Dress: Sharp City Casual    Age range: 40+

All you have to do is show up! 
  
RSVP Appreciated Call Martha # 215-584-0188

Just a Reminder

Martha's Singles has fabulous events  in Bucks County, PA and the surrounding areas.

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Call Martha # 215-584-0188

Mondays with Martha

Today is Labor Day the well celebrated and very wet end of the Holiday weekend. Summer vacations are coming to a close. Children are going back to school. The weather will be getting cooler. Not this week though, it will be in the eighties. 
Fall begins Saturday September 22nd.  Autumn leaves of reds golds and oranges will abound and Martha's Singles events will be well on their way.

Starting out this month Don't miss 

"Piano Bar Mixer" Sept 14th, Friday 6:30 to 10pm

@ Dolce Carini 2823 South Eagle Rd, Village of Newtown East Shopping Center, Newtown 18940

Elegant relaxed atmosphere, perfect for singles to socialize, make friends and possibly a love connection! 40 plus, Delicious Hot Appetizers included. Cash bar. $20.00

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"Elegant Mixer" Sept 27th, Thursday 6 to 9pm
@ Earl's Bucks County Peddler's Village 
Route 202& Street Road, Lahaska 18931

Intimate Contemporary Lounge in a beautiful Restaurant/Bar. Tasty Hot & Cold Appetizers included. Cash bar with Half price off all draft & bottled beers and wine by the glass, plus cocktail & martini specials. $20.00

Baggage Free: How to Get Over a Breakup

Here's the question: I've recently gotten out of a long-term relationship, and want to start dating again. The only problem is I think I still have some lingering "issues" from my last partner, and don't want them to negatively affect my future. Any tips?
Thanks
Wanting to be Baggage-Free

Answer: Dear Wanting to be Baggage-Free,
There's no way around it: breakups are tough...at best. In fact, I've watched more than a few friends—friends who are smart and hot and could easily find another—stay in terrible relationships just to avoid the breakup. And then there are the others—the one's who may be well out of the relationship time-wise, but are still very much in the relationship when it comes to matters of the heart.
But no matter what your story is (and believe me, everybody's got one), getting through a breakup can be made easier and more effective. Plus, it's a must-do for anyone who wants to find another—a better—relationship...or simply move on.
Just follow these five common-sense tips and you'll be well on your way to living baggage-free.
1. Realize that even the best of relationships can come to an end. I think we have a tendency that once a relationship ends, we throw the whole thing into question. To think that its demise was a sign that what you thought was "real" (i.e.—your time together, love, etc.) wasn't. But the truth is that good things—including relationships—can come to an end.

2. Recognize what lessons the relationship taught you. Regardless of whether it was short or long, contentious or amicable, each and every relationship has lessons for you to walk away with—lessons that will help you know more about who you are leaving it than when you entered it.
3. Rationalize your way into positive thinking. Look, we all feel terrible after it's over, but sometimes the only way to really get better is to sort of, well...fake it. Think positively even if it feels untrue, and soon enough, you won't have to force it at all. Create your own reality.
4. Refrain from playing the blame game. If you're really serious about getting over your ex and moving on, you won't wallow in who was right and who was wrong. Instead, take your blame (or guilt, as the case may be) and focus on turning it into a lesson to be learned (see #2).
5. Remain open to the possibility of another. It can be hard to imagine after a breakup—meeting someone else and starting all over again. In fact, you may not be able to stomach the idea at all. But in time—and by following the four steps above—you will meet another. And this time, it will be better than before because you've done the hard work necessary to leave your last relationship behind, move on with the next, baggage-free and all.

Answer by April Masini